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A shirtless person kneels on a dark grey carpet, leaning forward with their back arched. Another person stands behind them, resting a hand on their back.

Photography: Cait Oppermann shoots the world's largest sex convention (some NSFW)

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Date
10 February 2014

Sometimes being a photographer grants you access to places and situations that you might never otherwise consider (or desire) going to. Such was the case for Cait Oppermann, the Brooklyn-based photographer who found herself at Exxxotica, one of the world’s largest sex conventions, camera in hand and judgement tucked firmly away.

The results of her foray into this super-sexy underworld are not at all what you might expect. At times tender, occasionally touching and more often than not strangely lonely-looking, the images have an odd melancholy and heartwarming undertone, the reason for which Cait herself explained to us: “I went to Exxxotica, one of the world’s largest sex conventions, expecting to be completely disgusted by humanity. I was and I wasn’t. I saw a lot of people who didn’t seem to fit in anywhere else. People who looked like maybe they felt safer among people who wouldn’t judge them. I left feeling like I had just witnessed some of them finally getting a taste of freedom from judgment and the chance to just be themselves for a few hours, or even a few days. I never thought I’d look back and describe some aspects of a sex convention being sweet, but they were. Somehow sweet.”

Cait’s friend and fellow photographer Yael Malka also attended the convention, capturing a very different side, which you can see here.

A glowing blue neon sign reads “Cafe Expo” and hangs from a dark, industrial ceiling. Several square white lights illuminate the black metal beams and ventilation ducts around it.
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Cait Oppermann: Exxxotica

A close-up shows a person's foot in a black leather shoe standing on a bright pink carpet. Behind them is a purple and red Lamborghini car featuring the brand's bull logo and the word “ANNIV”.
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Cait Oppermann: Exxxotica

A shirtless person kneels on a dark carpet, leaning forward with their back exposed. Another person stands over them, placing a hand on their shoulder.
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Cait Oppermann: Exxxotica

Two people embrace closely in a dimly lit setting. One person wears a black bra and fishnet tights, while the other wears a white T-shirt and blue jeans.
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Cait Oppermann: Exxxotica

A person in a red patterned shirt and black beanie leans forward, partially obscured by thick black cables. Another person stands behind them, resting a hand with red nails on their shoulder.
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Cait Oppermann: Exxxotica

A person in a white T-shirt and khaki shorts sits on a folding chair, leaning forward to talk to another person. A label on the back of the chair reads “NECK PAIN”.
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Cait Oppermann: Exxxotica

Three one-dollar bills lie scattered on a black glossy stage around the base of a chrome pole. In the background, a person in blue jeans and sandals stands on a bright pink carpet.
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Cait Oppermann: Exxxotica

A person stands on a grey carpet wearing black trainers and white socks with black leaf patterns. They wear black bands around their upper thighs.
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Cait Oppermann: Exxxotica

A set of metal stairs with red treads leads up to a raised platform. Blue chairs are stacked on the platform against a dark backdrop.
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Cait Oppermann: Exxxotica

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Maisie Skidmore

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Maisie joined It’s Nice That fresh out of university in the summer of 2013 as an intern before joining full time as an Assistant Editor. Maisie left It’s Nice That in July 2015.

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